Modern feminism screws up a lot, it’s no wonder that so many men are deciding that women just aren’t worth it and “going their own way”. But the feminists complain about that fact, never realizing that it’s their own damn fault, as this article over on Elite Daily clearly shows. So I’m going to take some excerpts from the article and point out just how absurd the whole thing actually is.
There’s no door-holding, no hand-holding and definitely no free drinks. There’s no taking off hats or courting through invitations. There are no smooth moves, no jackets to dinner. There are no flowers, no tables by candlelight. But, most importantly, there are no dates.
And that’s because that’s the way you want it. For decades, you’ve demanded that women be treated exactly the same way that men are treated. Men don’t hold the door for other men. Men don’t buy drinks for other men. Men, at least straight men, don’t court other men. Decades of feminism has taught women not to act feminine and has beat men over the head with the belief that women shouldn’t be treated that way. And now you’re complaining about it?
If you’re a single woman, you probably envisioned your twenties as a roaring social scene full of expensive dinners and lavish nights out. You probably thought you’d have a boyfriend, or at least a few dates a week.
You probably thought you’d meet a guy at a bar and that he’d ask for your number. You probably thought you’d be on your way to dinner next week.
If you’re trying to meet guys in bars, you’re an idiot. Bars exist for pickups. Bars exist for cheap sex. They do not exist for forming long-lasting relationships. Clearly, you’re already doing something seriously wrong. Sitting at a bar getting drunk isn’t an invitation for anyone to get to know you, it’s an excuse to get you into bed for some anonymous sex. Don’t be stupid.
We’re dealing with a new breed of men here and it’s not the kind we grew up dreaming about. It’s the want-what-I-want-but-don’t-know-how-to-get-it type; it’s the sweet and cuddly mama’s boys who grow up terrified of making the first move; it’s the guys who have so much to say but don’t know how to say it.
Because there is a difference between the “kind of man you grew up dreaming about” and the kind of man that has been beaten down by decades of feminist rhetoric, into being literally afraid to approach a woman for fear of being called a misogynist. They’re not terrified of making the first move, they’ve had that ingrained in them by many encounters with radical feminists who have taught them to be afraid. So men, by and large, don’t do that. They don’t go up to random women on the street because they’ve had really bad experiences that come with it. What you have left are the predators at bars who don’t care about relationships, they just want another notch on their bedpost and there are far, far too many women who are only too happy to oblige them.
Anyone notice the problem here? Yet again, women are left to do all the work. We’re left playing both sides of the game because they’ve simply forgotten how to play.
And that’s exactly the kind of attitude that guarantees nobody will want to be with you. Relationships are not a game. Stop pretending that it is.
This leaves women making all the moves. We must tell them what they want if we’re to get anywhere close to the goals we had for ourselves. But it will never be as we fully imagined because, in our dreams, men weren’t timid or scared little boys; in our dreams, men are the ones with the balls to ask us out.
But isn’t that what feminists wanted? Equality? Expecting men to make all of the moves is sexist, according to feminist dogma, but here we have a feminist who wants to be courted, wants to be treated like a woman, yet still spends her time looking down on and insulting men for not meeting her expectations. Make up your damn mind! You can’t get mad at the dog for being timid when you spent all of its life kicking it. You’ve brought this on yourselves.
They’ll never admit it, but you scare the hell out of them. After years of social conditioning, we’ve been duped into thinking that men are the strong ones; that they are the leaders, the protectors and the fighters; that they are the ones that see what they want and go after it.
They are scared of you and it’s all your fault. It’s years of feminist rhetoric that has done it. It’s years of being called names, being accused of being rapists and animals and evil that has done it. You wanted equality, you got it. They no longer take care of you because you wanted to take care of yourselves. Now you’re realizing what it is that you’ve lost and pointing fingers back at the men who are only doing what you said you wanted them to do. Make up your fucking mind already!
Why are men like this? Well, for years they’ve been raised by their mamas, the women who told them they were the best thing God created on this earth. For years, they’ve been given everything on a silver platter — up until the end of college when they were picking up women who just threw up their jungle juice.
Of course, some mothers have raised great men. This isn’t to discredit the generation of mothers before us who raised the myriad of young men we’re dealing with today. But for the select few who didn’t teach them how to properly court a woman, well, shame on you.
Shame on you for not teaching them how to properly approach a woman. Shame on you for giving them the idea that women must go to them. Shame on you for making them believe all they had to do was stand at a bar and wait for a girl to appear on their arm.
Yeah, that’s a problem caused by feminism too. Feminists want to do away with gender roles, they want to raise men to be in touch with their feelings and when that’s actually done under the feminist flag, feminists complain that men are wimps. You made them that way! No, women are not going to teach their sons how to pick up chicks. That’s something that has traditionally been taught by the father, but feminism has no need for traditional families, or even having the father in the picture, it’s no wonder that children raised in these broken homes don’t get the full well-rounded social education that they once did. And again, feminism is to blame, yet the feminists take zero responsibility for their actions.
In a sad, but not all that surprising, report by Nickelodeon UK, men are 11 years behind women in maturity. While women reach maturation by 32, men aren’t fully matured until 43. While this study garnered much attention, women everywhere were less than surprised. Didn’t we already know this?
No, what’s sad is that it takes anyone until 32 to mature. Maturity used to happen by the late teens or early 20s. But again, this is the result of widespread liberalization, where people don’t go out on their own when they’re 18, their parents protect them through college and then the kids just move back in so they don’t have to deal with the reality of life. Liberal parents don’t want to kick their kids out of the nest and this results in a much longer period of immaturity. Don’t blame men, blame liberalism.
To add insult to the few dates you have yet to be asked on, men are also getting married less than ever before. According to a study by Pew Research Center, only 26 percent of Generation-Y is married.
Compared to the 48 percent of our parents at this age, there’s no denying that men just don’t have their sh*t together.
Yeah, because liberalism in general and feminism in particular has forced those changes on society. It’s said women don’t need a man. It’s said men are scum. It’s said that getting married is part of the patriarchy. If you want to have kids, don’t get married, just find a sperm donor. That’s all you need! Any of this sound familiar? It’s no surprise that marriage has been in serious decline since the 1960s, just when modern feminism and the rise of liberalism was getting its start.
We’re dating less and thus, marrying less. And the downfall picks up speed with every failed attempt to ask a woman out.
No, the downfall picks up speed as long as third and fourth-wave feminism continues to exist. It is a social poison that destroys everything. Now that’s not to say that equality is a bad thing, it certainly is not and I fully support equality, but being equal and being identical are not the same thing. Women don’t have to be identical to men to be equal. But you have a sizeable movement within radical feminism, the lipstick lesbians, who think that the only acceptable course of action is to eliminate men entirely. They don’t want there to be men. They want ot turn men into breeding stock and nothing else. And this is nothing new, it goes back to the beginning of third wave feminism. Linda Gordon said “The nuclear family must be destroyed… Whatever its ultimate meaning, the break-up of families now is an objectively revolutionary process.” Well, that worked out well, didn’t it feminists? Or how about Sally Miller Gearhart, who said “The proportion of men must be reduced to and maintained at approximately 10% of the human race.” Or Mary Daly, “If life is to survive on this planet, there must be a decontamination of the Earth. I think this will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will result in a drastic reduction of the population of males.” This is nothing new and nothing surprising. This is what feminism is. It’s what it’s been for the past 50 years. And now feminists are figuring out that they don’t like what their ideology hath wrought? And they’re blaming men for it?
These people are fucking idiots.