IgiveupkittyIn a recent forum discussion, on a totally different topic, someone started talking about why he loved living in Texas so much.  One of his reasons, and I quote:  “Texas provides an alternative to evolution in it’s schools that you can’t get anywhere else.”  I sat there and stared at that for a minute and then ignored pretty much anything more this individual said because clearly, they have a tenuous grasp on reality.  It just wasn’t worth my time to argue with him, or to even acknowledge that he had said anything, because his position simply does not match up with the real world.

I’ve found myself just giving up in situations like that more and more often lately, people say things that are unbelievably dumb and betray an inability to grasp reality.  Maybe I’m just getting older, I know that I would have leapt right in and disagreed just a few short years ago, but now, there’s a point at which I realize I’m fighting a losing battle so why bother to continue?  That point is coming earlier and earlier as the years wear on.  I suppose it’s because my purpose in engaging people isn’t just to have a discussion, it’s to make a difference and where it’s clear I cannot make a difference, I typically don’t bother.

Maybe that’s because I’ve fought the same fights so many times, I can do it in my sleep.  I know that nothing will ever come of it, it really doesn’t matter what I say, what evidence I present, how well I phrase my arguments, the other side isn’t even listening.  These discussions largely aren’t between two curious parties, both after the truth, it’s between one side with the facts, evidence and reason to back up their claims and the other with a fanatical obsession with their beliefs and no interest in listening to anything that doesn’t fit into their agenda.  Discussions with the reasonable religious seem to be a thing of the past.

So maybe it is time to just give up having these talks, they never go anywhere and they always end in frustration.  After all, in light of my last post, it doesn’t seem like this will be a problem for all that much longer anyhow.  So where do you give up?  When do you realize that it’s just a waste of time?  Is that time getting shorter for you like it is for me?  I’d like to know.

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